7 Aspects of Conversation at Holiday Parties

Are you invited to a holiday office party and fear your awkwardness will be revealed? Do you sometimes wonder what to say to colleagues, co-workers, and lesser-knowns at a festive gathering? Take comfort in knowing that you are not alone, but the more relaxed you are without being drunk or drugged, the less awkward you'll feel. Think positive, plan to enjoy yourself but always remember you are not alone. People watching is always an aspect of holiday gatherings, and when it comes to knowing how to behave, moderation is the key to success.

I don't remember where I borrowed the helpful hints, but I've listed them below.

7 Aspects of holiday conversation

1.Don’t drink before you arrive.

2. Wear something you feel comfortable in.

3. Walk in like you’re appreciated and expected.

4. Observe who’s doing what.

5. Get started by casually greeting a few people.

6. If you feel thirsty, get something to drink.

7. Mingle and start a conversation according to the following:

·        Mention something about the area or environment.

·        Introduce yourself and offer something about you.

·        Mention a trending topic.

·        If it’s not familiar to someone, think of another topic.

·        Pay attention to what’s happening in the room but   mostly listen and pay attention to the conversation.

·        Expand upon the topic of interest. Keep it short.

·        Before moving away, provide some forewarning by highlighting something that was said and by    establishing a future contact.

Parties are designed for celebration, and they're supposed to

be fun, but it's always a good idea to be on your best behavior

no matter how comfortable you feel. Respect everyone, not

just those who seem important. You never know who's 

listening and you never know whom you might be talking to. 

Other than that, eat, drink and be merry at your party, and 

always practice moderation.